Sarah Calvey
  • Diagnosed FAP plus Father and 2 siblings
  • Sarah was diagnosed in 2001 at the age of 13, underwent total colectomy in 2006 (J-Pouch) 
  • Underwent PGD and had my beautiful boy in 2018
  • Want to help people with their conditions.

I am part of a family who has inherited FAP. In 1990, my dad was diagnosed with bowel cancer soon to be diagnosed as FAP. At the age of 13 my two siblings and I were screened, confirmed to have FAP. FAP does not just have an impact on those who have it.  My mum has been through the journey seeing her husband and all 3 children being diagnosed with it. Visiting St Marks on a regularly basis was a family day out growing up.

My dad underwent many operations and had a desmoid tumour. My dad eventually had to have an ileostomy before being diagnosed with Stomach and Liver cancer in May 2013. Sadly, my dad lost his battle in February 2014 at the age of 56. Since then, my brother has undergone a Gastrectomy which was another challenge as a family, but he has soon adapted to this procedure and continues with his normal working, family and social life.

At the age of 14 I underwent my 2-stage surgery part way through one of my most important school years. Life at times has not been easy with further surgery but growing up as a family with FAP has helped us all manage to get through the challenges and continue with our daily life. 

“I understand the impact that FAP has on an individual and the wider family but also know the importance of continuing to lead a normal life as possible.”

In 2017 my husband and I approached the next journey of our life where we went through thr process of PGD (Pre genetic diagnosis). This was not an easy journey; the first cycle led to one embryo being FAP clear but unfortunately, I had a miscarriage. In 2018 we tried again where this time I had 4 embryos that were FAP clear. I successfully had my precious little boy in September 2018. 

There have been times when life has felt like a battle, but I always tell myself if you let it get the better of you then it will take control of you. Talking is always the best solution.                        

“Nobody is ever alone.”

More recently in 2024, what I thought was a bowel obstruction turned out to be a Pancreatic Neuro Endocrine tumour. I underwent Whipple’s surgery. This was a tough year as a family but luckily it was caught early.I am so grateful for St Marks team. They are a truly remarkable team and provide superb support and care. I am keen to give some time back to support others who have been diagnosed with FAP and may just need a mutual person to talk to.